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Resources for people
who know a sex addict
This page contains
resources that we have personally reviewed or have been recommended to us by a
reliable source. Most of the listings contain a link to Christianbook.com,
where your purchase will help support this website.
For Parents
A Parent's Guide to Preventing Homosexuality by Dr. Joseph Nicolosi
In this groundbreaking book Joseph and Linda Ames Nicolosi uncover the most
significant factors that contribute to children's healthy sense of themselves as
male or female. The Nicolosis provide clear insight for identifying potential
developmental roadblocks and give practical advice to parents for helping their
children. This book offers compassion and hope for all those parents who seek to
lay a foundation for a healthy heterosexual identity in their children.
Preparing Your Daughter for Every Woman's Battle: Creative Conversations about
Sexual and Emotional Integrity
By: Shannon Ethridge
"As the parent of a preteen girl, you may be wondering when to bring up
topics such as dating, modesty, and sexual purity. Ethridge's advice? "Right
now!" Created for moms, dads, and daughters to share, this creative resource
makes it easier for families to discuss sexuality and God's standards in a
positive, non-threatening way."
Preparing Your Son for Every Man's Battle by Stephen Arterburn &
Fred Stoeker
"In today's out-of-control culture, preparing boys for adolescence is
absolutely essential. Designed especially for parents of sons aged 8-13, this
guide offers practical ways to help your teens resist sexual temptation,
overcome the pervasive negative influence of movies, TV, music and the Internet,
and pursue a life of obedience and integrity."
For Spouses
An Affair of the Mind by Laurie Hall
Compelling and poignant, this is the story of one woman's struggle to protect
herself and her children from the devastating effects of pornography. With both
candor and sensitivity, Laurie Hall relives the nightmare that nearly destroyed
her family, warning others of porn's seductive, addictive nature. She opens her
heart and bares her soul, imparting keen insights and comfort. And she shares
the hard lessons God taught her - among them, the virtues of patience, trust,
and perseverance.
Every Heart Restored: A Wife's Guide to Healing in the Wake of a Husband's
Sexual Sin
By: Stephen Arterburn, Fred & Brenda Stoeker
"When husbands are ensnared by sexual sin, wives suffer most. Here, Fred and
Brenda Stoeker tell how they survived sin and betrayal---and rebuilt a solid,
intimate, and joyful marriage. Learn how trust can be restored if a husband
chooses purity and his wife chooses mercy." An accompanying
workbook is available.
Healing the Wounds of Divorce: A Spiritual Guide to Recovery by
Barbara Leahy Shlemon
This book was recommended to us by a respected colleague in prayer ministry.
"All those who have experienced the pain of divorce, regardless of their age or
sex, will find in Barbara Shlemon a sensitive and wise companion. Whether the
wounds of divorce are new or old, her faith-story will help readers discover the
healing compassion of God."
I Surrender All: Rebuilding a Marriage Broken by Pornography
by Clay & Renee Crosse
"Clay Crosse was a soaring success in Christian music, but his secret sin
threatened everything... He was addicted to pornography. No one knew he had a
problem-not even Clay-until the day God took away his singing voice. What
followed was the story of the power of grace and forgiveness. Now Clay and Renee
tell their story with the prayer that it will help countless other
marriages-perhaps even yours."
Love
Must Be Tough
by Dr. James Dobson
If your mate wants out, you want to know
exactly what you can do to better the odds of saving your marriage. Here's the
essential resource for any union in crisis, complete with the "do's"
and the "don'ts." This book should be a must read for wives of
porn addicts, as "tough love" is often needed to deal with the
difficulties porn addiction causes in a marriage. Dr.
Dobson explains the importance of mutual respect and self-confidence, and offers
guidance for holding a marriage together, even in the face of serious
conflict. This message provides new hope for anyone seeking a relationship
grounded in love and strength.
(Also
available in audio
book format and a
2-tape series available from Focus on the Family)
Road to Grace by Mike Genung
Mike begins by providing
the reader with the tools needed to break free from the bondage to sexual sin
with a straight-forward, Biblical approach. But this is just the beginning of
the journey, as gaining true freedom from lust is about much more than learning
to control external acts. The Road to Grace delves into the wounds and
lies in the heart that block the reader from receiving God's love, and then
guides him to the place where he can accept the free gift of the abundant life
in Christ that many yearn for but few believe they can have. The Road to
Grace guides the reader into finding all of this and more; sections for
hurting wives and healing a broken marriage are included.
For Anyone
Pornography:
Addictive, Progressive and Deadly by Dr. James Dobson (Video)
This Focus on the Family video exposes the addictive, progressive and
deadly trap of pornography. Dr. Dobson teaches a group of teens on the
basics of how pornography affects people. The video also includes several
excerpts from Dr. Dobson's exclusive interview with serial killer Ted Bundy,
shortly before he was executed. Bundy shares how pornography helped him
accelerate down the road of becoming a killer. Recommended for ages 16 to
26, but suitable for anyone looking to know more about how porn affects people..
Someone I Love is Gay by Anita Worthen
"A great book for family and friends of those who struggle with homosexual
confusion" - Dr. David K. Foster
Spiritual House Cleaning by Alice and Eddie Smith
Take off the blinders! See your house and possessions with spiritual
eyes! The average Christian family may not even be aware of the necessity to
spiritually clean their house in order to experience the peaceful presence of
God. That is why the Smiths have written this book. Biblically based, practical
and easy-to-read, this book is filled with proven ways for you and your family
to live free in Christ by ridding your home of things that attract and empower
spiritual darkness.
The Betrayal Bond by Patrick Carnes
"Exploitive relationships can create trauma bonds - chains of trust that link
you to someone who is dangerous, abusive and toxic. Dr. Carnes will guide you
toward freedom from an abusive cycle of destruction and betrayal. By its very
nature, this journey to freedom and well-being takes courage and effort. Reading
this book, and having its wisdom and guidance assist you at every step, will
help make this journey easier by lending much-needed support and understanding.
Dr. Carnes's deep compassion and abundant insights make this book invaluable to
you as you take the courageous steps necessary to break free of your bonds and
embrace healing."
The Wounded Heart: Hope for Adult Victims of Childhood Sexual Abuse
By Dr. Dan Allender
Almost everyone knows a victim of childhood sexual abuse; it has no religious or
social boundaries. And sexual abuse is probably the most ''soul-deadening''
trauma there is. For adult victims, here is a way out of the rage, fear, and
confusion. For their spouses, families, friends, and counselors, here are
specific ways you can help the healing process. With Christ, there is indeed
hope for the wounded heart. With a foreword by Dr. Larry Crabb. 255 pages,
softcover from NavPress.
When Homosexuality Hits Home
by Joe Dallas
"In this straightforward book, Joe Dallas offers practical
counsel on how to deal with the many conflicts and emotions parents,
grandparents, brothers and sisters, or any family member will experience when
learning of a loved one's homosexuality. Drawing from his own experience and
from his many years of helping families work through this perplexing and
unexpected situation, Joe offers scriptural and compassionate advice to both
struggling gays and those who love them."
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